A Lesson Of Love: From A Man To A Woman

A Lesson Of Love: From A Man To A Woman

Written by: Justin Bladl

 8/8/2023

As a 38 year old single man I sometimes wonder if there will come a time in my life that I may meet the woman I can't live without. But to start a relationship these days you gotta be Dr. Phil. And ladies hear it from a man's point of view. Fewer men get married these days because they feel they will have more weight to carry. We already have enough weight to carry alone. We carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and what we don't want is someone adding to it. What we need is someone that reassures that what we are doing is the right thing, someone that keeps us on track from doing the wrong thing. What we seek is our reason and purpose for being who we are.

There are few Queens among us and most Kings seek their Queen. We don't want a damsel in distress. We don't want a princess to impress. We want a Queen that can pass the test. Men these days are either desperate or on the fence. I believe there is a Queen out in the world that doesn't need me but will one day want me. As a man I can speak for the majority when I say that what we seek is a woman that can handle her own. A woman that will be alright when we aren't around because we know she handled herself single, this way we can better trust her in a relationship. We want to know she's safe. We want to know that we are safe with her. Men don't open up because once he does he's seen as weak. Let me clear the air for everyone right now. It takes true strength for a man to open up to anyone especially his lover. To let his vulnerability show is not a weakness. It's his power...

It's like this. When a man see's a woman focusing on herself and not looking for a savior she is more likely to get some attention. But if she's talking to every guy just to find one that will pick her up and carry her because she's pretty then men are less likely to have anything to do with her.  We want to know our woman is safe when we aren't around. We want to be able to trust her not to fool around. We want the one that makes us work for it because she's worth it. 

Ladies if you want a man's attention it's simple. Give him the attention he deserves. Show interest in what he does. He doesn't want to fight with you or fight for you forever. Make them fight for you at the beginning then show him his reward. Be his Queen. A King does not worry about his Queen. He knows she has everything she needs. But belittle him or make him feel unwanted and watch him fade away.

A man's most precious moments are usually behind a smile she wears for him. I work for smiles. But to find that one that smiles for me is still but a dream. A dream of a life that is lived out in love. I held myself back for a long time because I wanted a woman that accepted me with nothing and loved me for who I am not what I have or how I look. Why did I do this you ask? Simple once I fixed my flaws and had the money I'd never know if she loved me or the dream.

If she loved me and we built each other up and grew together I would've known it was meant to be. But that doesn't happen these days. Women want what they don't have but they don't want to work for it. They want a man to give it to them. In my eyes that's the wrong thought on how to get a man's attention. Become self-reliable. This goes for both sides. There's only a couple things we actually need to live. The rest is what we want. To need someone gives power over you. Never let anyone have power over you.

Ladies if you want a man make him want you. Find one that doesn't need you because there are plenty of grown ass boys running around. All we want is respect, loyalty, truth, peace. Take his work or hobbies and show some interest in what he does. Compliment him. If you pick him up when he needs it I promise he'll carry you wherever life takes you. Relationships take work. You won't get a fairy tale ending. They don't exist. But if you work together you'll live your dream. 

Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Love

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Unlock the Secrets to Lasting Love: Understanding What Truly Captures His Heart

In the pursuit of love and romance, understanding what truly captures a man's heart can feel like a mystery. Countless pieces of advice are available, but few seem to offer the key to lasting love. However, there's a program called "The Woman Men Adore" that claims to reveal the critical emotions and desires men seek in a woman. In this post, we'll explore some of the essential insights from this program to help you understand what it takes to build a deep and meaningful connection with the man you desire.

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A Philosophy On Philosophy: Inside The Philosophers Mind

A Philosophy On Philosophy: Inside The Philosophers Mind

Written by: Justin Bladl

Posted on 8/8/2023

If knowledge is power and the pen mightier than the sword, then the mind is god like and words are a force not to be misunderstood. The ability to express views through words and get someone to see the vision in which the philosophy depicts is a gift few are capable of achieving. For instance check the example below and think about what you see reading it.

Example

Through the eyes of dieing lies and the rivers of crying byes I drifted until the night took all sight to see anything but the deep darkness of my dreams that are memories of a past still seen in the mind when I lie awake as my eyes grow heavy from the burdens that drive the insanity sane.

I had to self educate myself on many aspects to get where I'm at which by the way is no where close to where I will be but I think I can help teach things in a way more people can relate to and understand. I'm still working on the marketing aspect of my offer as I had to teach myself how to build the vision I'd like others to see. I'm good at getting people to feel what I feel through the way I explain things.

I have always been more understanding of things and have had the ability to see things for what they really are. Two people I've connected with since I could remember are Bruce Lee and Albert Einstein. Einstein was able to understand things for what they were and that was his power. Bruce Lee was able to take a process and understand it to such a point that he could simplify a motion to a maximum effect. He understood that the less energy you use leads to the more power that could be released.

Bruce lee's speed and power did not come from his strength but from effortless release. To simply move comes natural but to throw a punch through tensing up and flex muscle trying to make the strike more powerful actually takes power away. 

Instead simply move or reach and see the speed and power already there.

Like water it simply flows and does not overflow itself through a rush of overwhelming power but instead it's power simply is. 

Go to a heavy bag and put all you can into a strike.

Then simply reach out and touch it and tell me which strike is more powerful. 

Both ahead of their time and geniuses in their own light.

Both also mocked and shunned for their gifts.

Both understood what's truly important in life.

Awareness, education, implementation.

Your success is determined by your determination to succeed. 

It's not the effort put into it but instead simply being aware enough to flow with the current.

You wouldn't go jump in a river at the bottom of a waterfall and try to swim up it. Instead you'd let the current carry you away and going with the flow is to have the power of not only yourself but the currents raging force following through behind the flow to establish a blow of unequaled power...

Be like water...

Go with the flow...

You'll reach the currents premapped destination with less energy spent and it'll be done faster and reach out with the power of the universes flow, as the stream is already flowing.

Do not fight the current. Instead let it carry you to your destination effortlessly and with true meaning.

Puts a whole new view on go with the flow doesn't it?

It's more than just a metaphor. It's a way of life. The current will reach it's destination as it is meant to and with more power as it has nothing causing ripples to weaken it's energy.

Think of every movement in life like a balet dancer and simply flow with more power through it's motion than a wave forced ever could. 

Success is determined by your determination to succeed.

Go with the flow.

A cup full can not be overfilled because it is already full. It simply spills over and then flows out. You can empty a full cup but have you ever filled a full cup? Same goes vice versa. You can fill an empty cup but have you ever tried to dump an empty cup out? 

I choose to be like the ocean and absorb what I take in. It becomes a part of me and when what I have absorbed becomes removed it is a treasure of knowledge. To be able to explore the depth of ones being... A true gift is given without expectation and often found in the moment.

To inspire through philosophy by helping one understand the true meaning of action by having taken action by implementing the value learned from philosophers to attain the knowledge through experience of trial and error and gain true value and understanding to be able to educate from the errors made and not the trials given. 

Start where you are and work a radius around you spreading what you have and anyone that enters that area and is hungry for what you're sharing will stick around and ask for more. At the same time this will grow your reach and the impact you can have on the ones reached much more valuable because the more people that want and understand what you offer will also share it with others in the attempt to gain more themselves. Like a stone thrown in the calm waters the ripples spread and become larger. Throw another stone inside the radius of the first one and the ripples reach further still.

So how do we gain the greatest impact through effortless reach? By doing it with passion and meaning. What we are passionate about we do effortlessly, and what has meaning to us we speak of with passion. The things we don't enjoy we fight unconsciously. It takes more effort to do something you don't want to do. The best way to achieve what we want through doing the things we don't want to do is by working from the destination backwards. You have to start with the end result in sight or you'll lose along the way.

A Choice of Life: A View Of Life

In life there are all kinds of ups and downs. Sometimes our ups can reach as high as mountain tops, sometimes our lows can bring us all the way down and beneath who we are. It takes going low to understand true depth. As deep as the oceans are, their depth compares not to my mind. The raging currents of the ocean ripping through the tides as they flow with raging speed, but nothing compared to the speed of light. Speed of light can't keep up with my mind. That's why my thoughts are the darkest in times of light. 

As I reach for the stars from the tops of mountains never coming close just thinking about them I realize that in all my time the reach is further than my climb. Still I imagine what it is like to sit on a star and view the night. Yet here I am in the middle of the fight, looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. Yet I see none, not even in death where some experiences say the light was there and then in my experience it was dark and quiet and even my words sunk silently into the night. All of my dreams I reach for with hope, yet all of my nightmares I push up a slope. And when they come falling it's right back on me and all of my dreams go fluttering off into the night along with my tears they take off in flight. 

My heart left behind the tears that I cried, the blood that I shed took all of my time. The pain I endured, the horrors I faced, only to realize what I see I create. My fears come to light and on through the night all of the good that I do nowhere in sight. All the time that was wasted, all the years that are gone, all the pain that has twisted my mind and it's wrong. All the wrongs stacked up ready to fall back in my lap like the heavy burden I carry in my heart and soul. In the night my mind races right into the depths of the deepest trenches I dug like I dug my own grave only a razor shave away from where I lay. 

These are the philosophical views of my mind's eye that see truths untold but still known but unknown to the world. Like a secret only I know and knowing nobody knows is not a blessing but instead a burden of despair that spares not my mind only my time. The time wasted on those who only used it for their pleasure to my pain were lessons hard learned and the time spent making the mistakes made my stake to this life a personal goal to chase until success has been reached and the point to myself was what doesn't kill us makes us stronger, wiser, and open-minded to the circumstances we put ourselves in. Our situations only plascent by our view of the problem needing solved not being caused by an unwilling soul to resolve what's at hand but then to hand an undeserving soul an answer is like telling an unseeing eye it's blind but look here while pointing to the solved problem right there in plain sight while the right thing to do is to take a hand and walk the unseeing eye to the line needing crossed which was right behind them meaning had they but turned around and took the step they'd have won the day in a way of not knowing the goal was to not move forward but take a step back and assess the situation at hand but circumstances not allowing one to look back whether being blind was an excuse for the line could be felt out like braille on the wall yet how does a blind man know the wall holds the answer to which way to go. 

In life we are forced to make choices we are not ready to make but fate would say otherwise and only the time is right if we are ready to see what is there for us to see. Like leading a horse unwilling to drink to the water's edge knowing the horse will die of dehydration if the thirst is not quenched for the journey ahead is long and holds no such luxury as a fountain needed when the thirst has set in but too late fate is set in stone but we hold the key to our own destiny and our choices need be based on humility not pride, for the meek shall inherit the earth while those full of pride lose their minds in the chaos of their own creations of time. 

For if we realize that our time is only what we make it then we would use time for its true purpose. The purpose of time is a hit and miss but never the less it reminds of times of better and worse and for better or worse the time that we spend healing our minds yet can be better spent, and if all of time was put there as a curse then maybe our minds can reverse the curse. Maybe the curse can be overlayed and maybe then it's covering can be for all time an eternity. But what if our mind could comprehend an eternity and what if all time is infinitely a line that constantly is in the twine of rewinding back to a life of misery only to realize it is what we see. And if we don't see that all time is but a dream and only our mind puts time on a string. But what if that string was a line that lays as a lead pointing through time to an eternity of life that always repeats as all energy never negates yet only moves from place to place. 

As energy dissipates the excess of time is never a waste because all dissipates means is to release what is not being used to another place where it's true meaning is to be in our face and yet here we are blind as a bat, and then our hypotheses are neither wrong and likely not right. Only a strong open mind can possibly see that all time is simply a dream. And if all time is eternity then when we die we truly do see a new light shine bright from the energy coming into place and if all energy was as powerful as we believe then our end never happens and what we then do is possibly create. 

But what if the energy is more than mass and what we have is a massive mistake as all space and time is more than just made. What we then have is a theory of a new beginning from start to end that is greater than minds can comprehend. But what if our minds could be truly opened and the answers were there hidden in plain sight. What if we could then see that all space and time is a true fantasy and in its place all known life is one existence and true fate. For what is our fate but a predestined place and where we go is already there waiting and if this be so then behold we are already there and what we've been told is a lie of despair.